Getting back together after a break up is one of the most misunderstood subjects around.
The problem lies in ex’s simply trying everything and anything to try and talk their way back into the arms of their ex lover.
You need to know that making bold any empty promises such as ” things will change “, ” things will be a lot better this time ” and big claims such as you moving heaven and earth to make your partner happy do not work.
Your ex has his or her reasons for ending the relationship. As difficult as it is right now you must accept this or run the risk of seeing your arms end up in the arms of another. Anyone can learn how to get back together IF you have understand basic psychology.
1. Controlling Your Emotions at All Times!
Ask yourself right now if you would take “you” back if you were your ex? Emotions spiral out of control after a break up and one of the biggest reasons why couples fail to reunite is because of “post break up” behaviour! Do not become bitter, needy, jealous and down right angry and hostile. You need to get your emotions in check as fast as possible.
2. Time and Space – Worth More Than Words!
I can not express how important giving your ex space is! Make no mistake, failing to do so can destroy your chances to reunite. Break ups can be an effective wake up call that your relationship must change, your ex might not want to leave you for good but you need to make sure you don’t force their hand. Give you and your ex time to get your emotions under control and allow yourself time to think rationally. Space is critical.
3. Accept The Fact That Your Relationship is Over
You must tell your ex that you respect his or her decision to end the relationship there is no way around it. The key here is to show your ex that you respect their decision and are completely mature. There is a secondary response which will make your ex why you suddenly agree with him or her and why you are no longer trying to him or her back!
4. Look In The Mirror – Honesty & Maturity
It’s time to be honest with yourself. It takes two people on the same page to have a happy and successful relationship. Relationships are hard work, the great ones are with great struggle and turmoil at times. You need to look at why your relationship ended and why your ex no longer wants to be with you. The lack of love is not the reason your ex left, your ex left because of your relationship and what it created in both of you.
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