Right now you probably want nothing more than for the phone to ring and hearing your ex’s voice? The fact is that while none of us want to see the person we love walk out of our lives, we can quickly forget what is really on the line. If you find yourself wanting nothing more than to call or text message your ex you need to reconsider.
Whether you want to get him or her back or simply try and remain friends, the fact is that you must give your ex space in order to allow emotions to settle and clear heads to prevail.
Giving your partner is extremely important especially if your break up was heated. The most important thing you need to understand right now is that break ups are rarely final, in fact the vast majority of break ups can be stopped with the right plan in place.
One of the biggest killers of the hopes of all ex’s is post break up behaviour. While most couples have every chance to reunite after a break up most simply allow their emotions to spiral out of control and can quickly regret their actions. If you feel that your are having trouble controlling your emotions you keep your distance at all costs.
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Giving your ex space will not push your ex away, in fact, making your ex miss you is a very effective technique to show him or her exactly what they are missing on by not having you in their life. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and in the case of break ups it rings very true! The only thing that will get the two of you back together for good is resolving the issues/problems that lead to the break down of your relationship.
Do your best to put a smile on your face and remember that getting him or her back requires time and patience but more importantly, a level headed and your heart not dictating your actions.
You must put aside the fears that providing your ex with space will see them leaving your life for good, the complete opposite rings true after a break up. More often than not an ex will have second thoughts about the break up, this is completely natural and something you need to allow to continue. The last thing you want to do is harass your ex and show him and her that you are not being mature or respectful of their decision. Stay away from your cell phone and more importantly avoid following your ex’s whereabouts and their every move, it will drive you completely nuts.
Check out our in depth video about the critical things you must avoid right now in order to turn things around.