One thing that is probably driving you crazy right now is wondering if your ex still loves you and if he or she does then why did they leave. I want you to know that there is a great chance your ex still cares about you deeply.
It may be difficult to believe or accept but love is rarely the reason for a breaking up and this includes your relationship. You might be wondering why your ex has left you if he or she still loves you? Well, love is only one component of a successful relationship and not the only deciding factor whether two people should stay together.
I know you probably love your ex more than life itself but right now you need to take your focus off this question and look at what went wrong in your relationship and why. It is no good to simply say I don’t know or be in denial, dig deep and summon up the strength to be completely honest with yourself. I know you will find the answers and or at least strong clues to the true reasons your ex ended your relationship if you can be open minded and honest.
Sometimes a partner will end the relationship by saying I don’t love you anymore. This can be a shot through the heart and leave you feeling as if your whole world has come crumbling down. While I can’t safely say that your ex was lying when her or she said this to you, I can tell you that it is extremely common excuse ex’s use to end a relationship. The reason why many do this is so that it is typically a get out of jail free card that gives their partner with little chance to try and can change their mind.
If you are sitting by the phone and waiting for your ex to call you or can’t do anything right now without thinking about your ex then you need to dig deep and pull yourself together. If you desperately need to get him or her back then you need to know that your ex will not come magically running back no matter how gutted you are.
Don’t try and make your ex feel guilty by crying and telling them how much you love them and can’t live without them. While your heart might want to scream this to the masses and to your ex it will do little to make your ex change their mind.
The only way to regroup and start down the path of reuniting is to go against all those feelings you have inside you right now. This means that you try and put a smile on your face no matter how much your heart is telling you to let the tears run. You have got to show your ex that you can live without him or her in your life, it can be difficult but it can show them that you indeed love them enough to let them go and try and find happiness.
Getting them back in your arms if that is something that you desperately want will be difficult if you refuse to accept your break up. Letting go is critical and telling your ex that your ex you understand their decision is the next step.
If you are struggling to keep your emotions under control and feel that you have tried everything to get your lover back in your arms then I highly recommend you get help.
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